"Every time we visualize the thing we long for, every time we see ourselves in imagination in the position we long to fill, we are forming a habit which will tend to make our highest moments permanent, to bring our vision out of the ideal into the actual."Orison Swett Marden How To Get What You Want (1917)

Self-acceptance is the key.

"Self-acceptance is the key to a higher consciousness and more attractive energy. Don't be hesitant to stop the self-criticism, you can't be both in harmony and in hatred with yourself."
Sandra Anne Taylor

'You must understand that the present state of your bank account, your sales, your health, yur social life, your position at work, etc. is nothing more than the physical manifestation of your previous thinking."

"Bob Proctor - Co-author of The 11 Forgotten Laws - The 11 Forgotten Laws That Make The Law Of Attraction An Unbreakable Force

In other words, your past thinking has created the life that you have today. If you want to change any or all areas of your life, then you must first change your thinking habits.